Monday, October 10, 2011

Dealing With Stress

Happy Monday, Life stress can happen to anyone, stress can be due to planning your wedding, work, fiances, relationships and the list can go on forever, as a result of our stress combined with our everyday situations that we run into, I have researched several techniques to help me deal with my stress and any other situation as well. Below are 10 techniques I put together to share with you all, I hope you can all put these to good use. I am trying to enjoy and live a happy stress free life and we hope you do to.



10 Relaxation Techniques To Reduce Stress On-the-Spot
If your hectic lifestyle has got you down, experts say relaxation techniques can bring you back into balance -- some in five minutes or less.


1. Meditate


If you're thinking meditation means twisting your body into an uncomfortable position and uttering "oohs" and "omms" for an hour, guess again. This includes walking, swimming, painting, knitting -- any activity that helps keep your attention calmly in the present moment.
When you catch yourself thinking about your job, your relationship or your lifelong to-do list, experts say to simply let the thought escape, and bring your mind back the repetition of the activity. Try it for just 5 to 10 minutes a day and watch stress levels drop.


2. Picture Yourself Relaxed


Is your mind too talkative to meditate? Try creating a peaceful visualization, or "dreamscape." To start, simply visualize anything that keeps your thoughts away from current tensions. It could be a favorite vacation spot, a fantasy island, that penthouse in New York City -- or something "touchable," like the feel of your favorite silk robe or cozy sweater.
The idea is to take your mind off your stress, and replace it with an image that evokes a sense of calm. The more realistic your daydream -- in terms of colors, sights, sounds; even touch and feel -- the more relaxation you'll experience.


3. Breathe Deeply


Feeling stressed evokes tense, shallow breathing, while calm is associated with relaxed breathing, So to turn tension into relaxation, he says, change the way you breathe.
Try this: Let out a big sigh, dropping your chest, and exhaling through gently pursed lips. Now imagine your low belly, or center, as a deep, powerful place. Feel your breath coming and going as your mind stays focused there. Inhale, feeling your entire belly, sides and lower back expand. Exhale, sighing again as you drop your chest, and feeling your belly, back and sides contract. Repeat 10 times, relaxing more fully each time.


4. Look Around You


"Mindfulness is the here-and-now approach to living that makes daily life richer and more meaningful," It's approaching life like a child, without passing judgment on what occurs. Mindfulness means focusing on one activity at a time, so forget multi-tasking! Staying in the present-tense can help promote relaxation and provide a buffer against anxiety and depression.
Practice it by focusing on your immediate surroundings. If you're outdoors, enjoy the shape and colors of flowers, hear a bird's call or consider a tree. In the mall, look at the details of a dress in the window, examine a piece of jewelry and focus on how it's made, or window-shop for furniture, checking out every detail of pattern and style. As long as you can keep your mind focused on something in the present, stress will take a back seat.


5. Drink Hot Tea

If you're a coffee-guzzler, consider going green. Coffee raises levels of the notorious stress hormone, cortisol, while green tea offers health and beauty.
Chamomile tea is a traditional favorite for calming the mind and reducing stress. And black tea may be a stress-fighter, too, researchers from University College London report. Participants who drank regular black tea displayed lower levels of cortisol, and reported feeling calmer during six weeks of stressful situations than those who drank a placebo with the same amount of caffeine.


6. Show Some Love

Induce the relaxation response by cuddling your pet, giving an unexpected hug to a friend or family member, snuggling with your spouse, or talking to a friend about the good things in your lives, said by psychologist.
Why? Experts say social interaction helps your brain think better, encouraging you to see new solutions to situations that once seemed impossible, she says. Studies have also shown that physical contact -- like petting your dog or cat -- may actually help lower blood pressure and decrease stress hormones.


7. Try Self-Massage


When your muscles are tense and you've no time to visit a pro, try these simple self-massage technique.

Place both hands on your shoulders and neck.
Squeeze with your fingers and palms.
Rub vigorously, keeping shoulders relaxed.
Wrap one hand around the other forearm.
Squeeze the muscles with thumb and fingers.
Move up and down from your elbow to fingertips and back again.
Repeat with other arm.


8. Take a Time-Out


Adults need time-outs, too. So when you sense your temper is about to erupt, finding a quiet place to sit or lie down and put the stressful situation on hold. Take a few deep breaths and concentrate on releasing tension and calming your heartbeat. Quiet your mind and remember: Time is always on your side, so relax. The stress can wait.


9. Try a Musical Detour

Music can calm the heartbeat and soothe the soul, the experts say. So, when the going gets rough, take a musical stress detour by aligning your heartbeat with the slow tempo of a relaxing song. And you might want to make that a classical tune. Research shows that listening to 30 minutes of classical music may produce calming effects equivalent to taking 10 mg of Valium.


10. Take an Attitude Break


Thirty seconds is enough time to shift your heart's rhythm from stressed to relaxed. The way to do that: Engage your heart and your mind in positive thinking. Start by envisioning anything that triggers a positive feeling -- a vision of your child or spouse, the image of your pet, that great piece of jewelry you're saving up to buy, a memento from a vacation -- whatever it is, conjuring up the thought will help slow breathing, relax tense muscles and put a smile on your face. Experts say that creating a positive emotional attitude can also calm and steady your heart rhythm, contributing to feelings of relaxation and peace.


Try these you will never know this might help you.


From your,

Event Specialist

Friday, October 7, 2011

Loving The Old Hollywood




There is something sexy about the 50's glam Hollywood times. It is so romantic and feminine screaming elegant and sophistication, Hollywood movie star glamour... I am obsessed and yes my future wedding will be all glammed up. From the dresses to the hair to the decor, I mean this is the ultimate glam, sensual, and empowering look. The blacks, whites, silver,diamonds, greys, and vintage are all part of the 40's, 50's old Hollywood theme. I love the era that we live in now, however; it almost feels as if back then ladies were much more glamorous and sophisticated and i love it, I am obessessed.


Ladies, we must thank the most glamours of all time and the greatest, Marilyn Monroe,Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, Elizabeth Taylor, Jean Harlow and one of my favorite Sophia Loren. I have the book collection of most of these fabulous ladies and I love it.
The glitz and glam of diamonds adds the perfect touch.



How to get a chic elegant style: This combination of feathers and the french birdcage veil goes well with the simple neckline of her elegant wedding dress. The touch of the red lipstick completes the look. Love this look. Eye-catching with a very simple elegant gown. It is very old Hollywood glamour in the 50s.

If you are looking into an elegant old hollywood theme, call or e-mail us, we will make sure you get your hollywood glam event.


Stay tune for my next blog post the 1940's and 50's hair style.

From your,


Event Specialists




Monday, October 3, 2011

Movie Of The Day Monster-In-Law

Wedding Movie Flashback:


How many of you have experiences a mother-in-law similar to Jane Fonda's character in real life?




It's not unusual to see two women fighting over the same man in a movie, only this time it's his mother and his fiancée vying for his attention in this broad comedy. While Charlotte Cantilini (Jennifer Lopez), known to her friends as Charlie, has never had much luck in her love life, one day her ship arrives in a big way when she meets Kevin Fields (Michael Vartan), a doctor who is charming, handsome, and wealthy. Kevin also has a famous mother, Viola Fields (Jane Fonda), who has enjoyed a long and successful career as a news broadcaster. When Kevin and Charlie fall head over heels for one another, he opts to propose marriage to her as he's introducing Charlie to Viola over lunch. However, as far as Viola is concerned, this could not come at a worse time -- Viola has just been fired from the anchor desk, and regards her son as the only anchor left in her life. Not willing to share Kevin with anyone, Viola sets out to sabotage his relationship with Charlie in any way she can, often with the wary assistance of her secretary Ruby (Wanda Sykes). But once Charlie gets wind of Viola's schemes, she decides two can play this game. Monster-in-Law marked Jane Fonda's return to the screen after a long leave of absence.




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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Sweet 16 Party Tips



Only once in a lifetime does a daughter turn Sixteen



Picture and candy station created by elegant creations



Sixteen is the sweetest age and it is worth celebrating it. Preparing for a Sweet Sixteen party and accommodating the guests will be challenging, as most of the guests will be energetic teens.


As for your guests list, make it Sweet by restricting invitees to be teens.


The color and party theme depends on the Birthday girl. Popular themes include Arabian night, Rock or Hollywood. Brilliant colors will make your party look exciting!


The invitations should set the mood for your party. Music and dance is the best entertainment for a Sweet Sixteen party.


Lighting can bring a lot of changes to your location irrespective of the place where you host a party.


Dinner could consist of buffet style food and/or appetizers.



Gift ideas for teenage girls could be fashion accessories, makeup kits, CDs, or DVDs.


Candy stations are very popular at Sweet Sixteens and all other parties. Its a HUGE hit!!! candies, sweets, savories and anything the teens like.


Lot of snacks and sodas are to be present in the party. Don’t count on calories when you plan for sweet sixteen party.


Party Planners always have fantastic ideas, so if you want a great party email us at njeventspecialists@gmail.com.


Yours truly,

Event Specialists

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Ten Commandments For Couples

Ten Love Commandments


For a healthy successful relationship follow the love commandments.


1. Thou shal give 100 percent

2. Thou shal treat your partner as the unique individual he/she truly is

3. Thou shal stay connected through word and deed

4. Thou shal accept change and support growth in yourself and your mate

5. Thou shal live your love

6. Thou shal share: The love and fear, the work and play

7. Thou shal listen, listen, listen

8. Thou shal honor the subtle wisdom of the heart and listen to the powerful

insites of the mind.

9. Thou shal not be a JERK or a NAG

10. Thou shal integrate the purity of spiritual love with the passion of physical love and the power of emotional love


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Event specialists

Dinner Party Hosting Ideas

Here are a few ideas and tips, that we personally apply when creating or hosting our own dinner parties, follow these easy tips for setting a beautiful dinner table, creating an inviting space for guests, making the perfect playlist.

Setting The Mood:
"Keep in mind that the host's mood sets the tone."

Learn The Art Of Conversation:
Don't be abore, engage in conversations with your quests.

Serve Food At Proper Temperature:
"Warm plates before serving hot food on them." (if your hosting your event at your place)

Send Formal Invitations
"Send out a proper invite. A handwritten one is preferable, but the online evites are quite wonderful." (again this is depending on what type of event you are hosting, any wedding event mailing a proper formal invitation is what the occasion calls for).

Create A Playlist:
"Create a music playlist that's ready to begin as soon your quests walk in and doesn't end until the last guest departs."

Introduce Your Guest:
Always, always make introductions. If you're going to make a guest feel alienated, why invite them right?"

Party Favors:
"Always give favors. People love leaving with a little something." ( I know I do).

Lastly
Have fun with your guest, enjoy the time.

From your,
Event Specialists